Bridesmaidzilla

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I didn't know there was a such a thing as having bridesmaidZILLAS... Or persons who are just as dramatic as the brides themselfs.

Ladies if your bridal party brings you to tears something is horribly wrong. The ladies you choose to be apart of your special day are suppose to be a support and comfort to you. Not a source of stress and cause of much irritation.  If there are problems and misunderstandings yes they can be fixed but everyone must understand that all final decisions belong to the BRIDE and GROOM. Nothing else matters

Saying yes to the dress
The bride will ask her girls how she looks and it's our job as either maid of honor or a brides maid to tell her the honest truth. However, we are not there to pick out what dress we'd wear to our wedding because news flash, It's not our wedding at all. 
Knowing the line between being helpful and awful is often overstepped. It's not completely our fault though. Speaking from the point of being a Maid of Honor in my best friends wedding, we do have a lot of say and a lot of decisions to make so it can go to ones head lol. At the end of the day we must realize our place which is in the background. Let the bride do her thang!
If she wants the bridal party to wear clown shoes then dawg on it just wear the stupid shoes. It's HER day and we should happily back her up on what she wants carried out ( even if the dress is ugly as sin). 

I'm sure this goes for the men too.
Don't be jerks basically and don't tell the groom what to do cause it's his wedding.

Fortunately for me the entire bridal party looks awesome. The dresses are flattering on everyone and we are all on the same page. 

Here's the point, it's one day. One day to dress up and be by your friend or family member's side as they make one of the most important decisions of her life. So just chill and play nice with the other girls and boys. It'll all be fine in the end. You want to be able to look back on this day and smile with no regrets. 

CONGRADULATIONS! 
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